Honor and Appreciation
Although those two sentiments are usually reserved for people, there are countless of objects in home décor that require and deserve both. I will say though, that most of these objects are usually tied to someone who is, or has been special and dear. We keep and display these items to honor their existence and their part in our lives.
The most common of these are family pictures. Every time you display a picture in your home, you are no doubt honoring the person in the photo. So it’s also important to show a little honor for the photo itself. For example, original photos (taken with film and developed on paper) should always be matted. The mat will prevent it from touching the glass, which believe me, the photo can stick to the glass after several years…ruining the picture! Older photos should be protected if you expect them to last.
Today, digital photography has increased our options. I highly recommend that you take the time to scan all your important and very old photos so that you have a digital record of them. It’s definitely time consuming if you do it yourself, but totally worth the time…you can give a copy to all your family, further honoring them and your heritage.
Sometimes, we honor the memory or actions of those we love with small heirlooms that once belonged to them…medals, pins, jewelry, etc. Again, protecting these heirlooms is important, and for this, shadow boxes are the way to go. Almost any small collection can be showcased in a shadow box. So if you have a collection of small heirlooms in a closet somewhere, think about displaying them.
If you’re creative, you can do it yourself. But most framing shops can artfully display your collection for you. The shadow box will protect your treasures while on display for all to enjoy.
Furniture is another home décor item that is often inherited. And how better to honor and appreciate than by using it! Of course this isn’t always possible, …you don’t want to destroy it either. But if your item is functional and usable, then I encourage it. I believe your ancestor would be honored to know that you’re truly appreciating the piece by actually using it in your home.
And by the way, if it doesn’t fit with your current décor (and it’s not a valuable antique) it’s ok to paint or alter it to fit your needs. Even if altered, it’s STILL the same piece. Some people might think that’s wrong, but I feel that the point is not to keep it intact, but rather to enjoy and appreciate it.
Hope I’ve inspired.
